Thursday, December 18, 2014

A Christmas Feast in Burma (Myanmar) 2014


Consider how  a small sacrificial  gift can have tremendous impact.  I will change the names so that donor will not be embarrassed about what he did.
 
Recently, I learned that a newly graduated seminarian from Gordon-Conwell made a sacrificial gift to a ministry in Burma. I know this person works two jobs and is quite poor (for American standards). The following is the interaction:
 


Hey brother Nun!

You have been on my mind lately for several reasons. But I will write now for the most immediate reason. As you know, in America, people give each other gifts for Christmas. Often, people can be very greedy and worldly during this season (sadly). This Christmas, in order to help people get their minds off greed and possessions, J++++++  and I wanted to spend half of our normal amount on family and give the other half to MEBC. It will be maybe $200 or so. We would like to donate it in the name of my family, the ______  family (there are about 10 family members). I would like to give each of them a picture of you or of your students with a letter of thanks from Principal Nun.


THE RESPONSE WILL KNOCK YOUR SOCKS OFF


Dear ____,



 Wow! D++++, I don't even know what to say brother, that's so amazing for me to learn that the Lord is moving you and your family's heart to give a gift to MEBC. D+++, since the month of November I and students have been praying that the Lord will provide some budget so that we can have Christmas celebration on this December Christmas at MEBC with students and neighborhood around us. So, after several weeks prayer, I asked to the students how much each students can donate for Christmas.



out of 17 students,  three students puts up hand and they can donate 4000 MMK which is US$ 4. So I was so concerned about how I can make a feast on this Christmas day. And so I said to them, pray to the Lord until 20th December, 2014 and then on the 20th December I will collect your donated money for Christmas and go shopping for the need of Christmas on 21th December and then make decoration of Christmas on 22, 23 December and then on 25 we are going to have  a wonderful Christmas celebration. They all smile at me without a word because they knew that they do not have a way to get money such quickly for Christmas donation. Neither their  parents can send them because their parents are also poor as much as they do. That is why they just looked at me and smile at me ( the meaning of their smile at me is a kind of saying No, principal Nun, that will not happen because we don't have a way to get it from).


But D+++++, how awesome is to hear from you that ______ family is going to make this year Christmas celebration at MEBC for us? D+++++, tomorrow I will tell to the students you can eat as much as you wanted to eat on the Christmas day and also you can invite your friends to come and join us at MEBC hallelujah!!!
Thank you so much D++++, I think the Lord puts you & J++++++  on the right time & the right spot :).Praise the Lord and glory be unto him forever!
 

As you consider the power of this  gift, be reminded of the repression in countries like Burma and China. Do you realize that statistically, there are more Christians in China than in the entire United States?

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Numana & Simple Church pack 130,000 meals!

Joan and I each coached two groups of  twelve out of 500 people who helped pack 130,000 meals with Numana Ministries on December 7 in Shreveport, LA.

Based in El Dorado, KS, Numana, Inc. is a non-profit 501(c)(3) public charity formed in August 2008, as an international hunger relief organization. The  first food-packaging event was held in El Dorado, KS in December of 2009.  Since then Numana has packaged over 30 million meals from coast to coast with the help of over 170,000 volunteers.
 
Numana events welcome people from all ages and backgrounds. The events provide a hands on project in which almost any age or skill level can participate. It builds unity in a community, facilitates leadership development and educates people about hunger issues while engaging advocacy.



The two groups I coached packed 1800 meals (50 boxes with 36 meals in each box)!

Each meal can feed 6 people, so 24 volunteers impacted 10,800 people with one meal or a small family with three meals per day for almost two years!

Thank you Group 7 & 8! You blessed my socks off !!!!!!! (Battery died before I got pics of Group 7).
 
Next on the mission projects is food distribution locally on December 20, 2014.

Saturday, October 18, 2014

Be Bold Be Bald 2014







For my brother, Mike! Also, for my sister-in-law, Melanie; my niece, Victoria; and my friends, John and Debbie  and so many others that have been through treatment to overcome. Many blessings to you as your overcome and gratitude to the physicians and healthcare workers who help and heal.

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For - Jenny & Tyler (feat. Sara G...





What does this mean?
 
"13 These all died in faith, not having received the things promised, but having seen them and greeted them from afar, and having acknowledged that they were strangers and exiles on the earth. 14 For people who speak thus make it clear that they are seeking a homeland. 15 If they had been thinking of that land from which they had gone out, they would have had opportunity to return. 16 But as it is, they desire a better country, that is, a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared for them a city." (Hebrews 11:13-16)
 
It's also awesome that they're donating all the proceeds to organizations that fight human trafficking. So, if it turns out you don't like the music, you still supported a great cause! But believe me, you'll like the music.
 
Thanks for checking this out.


Sunday, June 1, 2014

Why I Attend The Simple Church in Shreveport/Bossier


Recently, I was asked why would someone who knows some of the “deeper aspects” of the Spirit attend The Simple Church?
This person quickly added that he was not looking to make a change in his church attendance, but just wanted to know my thoughts. I assumed that he was implying (or at least I inferred) he was not  asking a rhetorical question, but asking ME a PERSONAL question: "Why do YOU attend the Simple Church?"

The way I heard the question was more like "Why would anyone who has any depth attend the Simple Church?" In fairness,  I have great admiration for this person so don't assume I think of him like the church-lady, but there are others who have asked me the same thing ... and they were/are a bit "churchy."
Apparently, he assumes that someone who is aware of  "deeper things of the Spirit" wouldn't get anything out of attending "seeker-friendly" church. Of course just because I KNOW stuff and have been introduced to deeper aspects of the Spirit, such as the gifts of the Spirit and more intense worship, doesn’t mean that I have applied what I have learned.

Like many other Christians, I know a lot but I wasn't really DOING anything.  I’m kind of tired of the most recent fads. As I see it, the SC has not done it like  other church plants. What we have done may not be the best way or the only way, but  something  seems right...for now, but we have to always be on the edge. Never complacent.

There are lots of churches which are socially conscious but Biblically immature. Some people see the Simple Church as immature or shallow because it unashamedly and strategically seeks out those of US in the margins. I say “US” because I am one of those people in the margins, even though I have been very active church for years. I am no better than anyone. In fact, I am quite worse because I have been a phony. I have attended church, but I have not dealt with my addictions, habits, hang-ups and pain of my past. I glossed over them.

As I think about why I attend the Simple Church, these are some of my reasons (in no particular order):







Sunday, May 25, 2014

Do We Have the POWER to CHOOSE Not to Sin?



Don't let sin reign!

 

Do you wrestle from the point of flesh or spirit? If you identify with sin, you're going to lose. Why would someone who is free from sin still identify with sin? If you identify only with sin, who you used to be, then you will continue to fail to say no to sin.

"Could it be any clearer? Our old way of life was nailed to the cross with Christ, a decisive end to that sin-miserable life—no longer at sin’s every beck and call! What we believe is this: If we get included in Christ’s sin-conquering death, we also get included in his life-saving resurrection. We know that when Jesus was raised from the dead it was a signal of the end of death-as-the-end. Never again will death have the last word. When Jesus died, he took sin down with him, but alive he brings God down to us.

"From now on, think of it this way: Sin speaks a dead language that means nothing to you; God speaks your mother tongue, and you hang on every word. You are dead to sin and alive to God. That’s what Jesus did.


"That means you must not give sin a vote in the way you conduct your lives. Don’t give it the time of day. Don’t even run little errands that are connected with that old way of life. Throw yourselves wholeheartedly and full-time—remember, you’ve been raised from the dead!—into God’s way of doing things. Sin can’t tell you how to live. After all, you’re not living under that old tyranny any longer. You’re living in the freedom of God." (Romans 6:11-14)
 

 
Identify with the SPIRITUAL, not sin.
Remind yourself that sin is NOT who you are!
Remind yourself that you're dead to sin and alive in Christ.
 
How many times do you hear a fellow-Christian mournfully say "I am just a sinner saved by grace?" I get the point that we ARE sinners and we ARE saved by grace, but we  are  NOT JUST sinners saved by grace. In fact, I have the power NOT to sin. I am MORE than a conqueror.

Or at least, that's the way I read Romans 6:22-23:
"But now that you’ve found you don’t have to listen to sin tell you what to do, and have discovered the delight of listening to God telling you, what a surprise! A whole, healed, put-together life right now, with more and more of life on the way! Work hard for sin your whole life and your pension is death. But God’s gift is real life, eternal life, delivered by Jesus, our Master."


Am I missing something? The following are some points I noted from a sermon by Andy Stanley of North Point Church near Atlanta:
 

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Momma's Broken Cookie Jar...Deep-Seeded False Beliefs

My Momma had cookie jar shaped like an apple. It was bright red and quite nice; however, she placed it on a shelf in our kitchen where I was prone to walk by and knock  off the lid of the jar. Momma got pretty annoyed over how many times I knocked over the jar or broke the lid.

Funny that  she never moved the jar. Hmmm...well, that's for another post. [Momma, you know I love you and I am not holding anything against you...at least I don't think I am. :) ]

Time and time again, I would knock over the jar or knock off the lid. Over and over, I would pick up the pieces and glue them back together. After a while, the lid should have been able to bounce for all the Elmer's glue that it had in it. That lid and jar had a lot of chipped places, scars and cracks, but it still held some sweet delectable cookies.

I think after some time, Momma threw the cookie jar away because it began to look pretty bad. It was still functional, but it was...ugly.

That old cookie jar is not unlike me. It ,and I, have many cracks, chips and broken places that have been glued and re-glued and re-glued back together. The broken places in our lives are from  deep-seeded wounds, false beliefs about ourselves. They are...ugly.  

It has been the continuing work of Christ by the Holy Spirit mending those wounds and broken places that makes the person I am. Looking at the jar (me), you might see all the scars and cracks. Perhaps what you see is...ugly,  but inside there is some really good stuff: the goodness of Jesus.


How we see ourselves is often filtered through deep-seeded false beliefs. I recently heard Troy and Melissa Haas of Restore Ministries share how statement, behavior, event, circumstances and even non-verbal cues, such rolling of the eyes, sighing or tone of voice, can trigger false beliefs that we have about ourselves.

Those false beliefs can create an internally processed or externally expressed reaction. Typically, the false beliefs create a toxic reaction because we filter what we hear by the deep-seeded false beliefs.

Filter (False Beliefs)                                                                Toxic Reaction
                                                                                              Self-focused
"I am bad"                                                                              "I'm a jerk
"I am unworthy"                                                                      "You're better off without me"
"I am defective"                                                                      Self-pity
"I am uniquely screwed up"                 

                                                                                               Self-Protective
"I am a disappointment."                                                         Blaming
"I am a failure"                                                                         Placating
"I am inadequate"                                                                    Withdrawing
"I am incompetent"                                                                   Denying
                                                                                                 Minimizing
"I am  unloved"                                                                         Rationalizing
 "I am undesirable"                                                                   Justifying
"I am unacceptable"


                                                                                                Punishing
"I am invisible"                                                                         Being Sarcastic
"I am unimportant"                                                                   Criticizing
"I am insignificant"                                                                    Neglecting
                                                                                                 Threatening
"I am unsafe"                                                                            Abusing
"I am powerless"
"I am a victim"

                                                                                                 All or Nothing Thinking
"I am alone"                                                                              "You always..."
"I am on my own."                                                                     "I can never please you."
"I am responsible for all this"                                                     "You never..."


Sunday, May 18, 2014

Family Priority? How When I Have So Much To Do?

Family is by far the most important things that can ever happened to me or you! Many times in our lives we take family for granted.




Tomorrow is not promised! Without family we would have nothing.

Make today count! Family should be at the top of your list of priorities.

"Families may not have it together but together they have it all." Don't let another day go by that you think about someone and don't reach out to them. 


Make sure to live every day of your life with random-access kindness and an open heart, and open mind. Many times families will fight but that doesn't make them inadequate- it makes them normal.


So next time remember to love and appreciate all the blessings you have.


Family, rather good or bad, is still family. Everyone is not fortunate enough to have a family. 


Make the best of yours.

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

The Biggest Religious Liberty Decision in Decades Influenced by Local Shreveporter

The following was shared with me by my friend, Mike Johnson. I wish I could claim any part of this, but at least I can share the good news and hard work, and be reminded that when he first started with the ADF he shared space with me at 401 Market Street, Suite 900.





"As I discussed this morning with Tim Brando and have explained in several other interviews over the past 24 hrs, the 5-4 victory for public prayer in Town of Greece v. Galloway, is perhaps the biggest religious liberty decision in decades, and will have far-reaching implications.  What I haven't said publicly is that the Lord told me all of this was going to happen one night at our little kitchen table in late June 2007.  Kelly remembers the night very well.

 

At the time, I was serving as Senior Legal Counsel for the Alliance Defense Fund (ADF), and had been responding to our organization's growing number of calls for advice and assistance from city councils and county boards around the country. It seemed public officials everywhere had begun receiving the same basic threat letter from the ACLU and other radical secularist groups that these public bodies must immediately cease opening their meetings with prayer (or at the very least censor the prayers so that the name of JESUS could never be mentioned again).

 

Of course, this demand ignored more than two centuries of cherished tradition in our country and was a gross and intentional misinterpretation of the First Amendment's guarantee of religious freedom.  But to my alarm, many local and state governmental bodies simply gave in to the threats to avoid the cost of a lawsuit, and tragically stopped opening their meetings with prayer.  

 

After responding and trying to cover so many of these skirmishes in such rapid fashion, I was praying that night in June 2007 about what we needed to do to address these attacks more efficiently.  The Lord spoke to my heart and specifically gave me the idea to carefully craft a model prayer policy and a lengthy legal information letter that we could send out to local public bodies in a nationwide initiative, accompanied by a guarantee if any public officials adopted our policy and got sued--we would defend them free of charge.  In short, the Lord impressed upon my heart very clearly that it was time to play offense.  The Lord told me very specifically that this would be a pivotal battle in our country's history and that we would ultimately PREVAIL on it at the U.S. Supreme Court.

 

The Lord made this SO clear to me that I jumped up from the table and excitedly explained to Kelly the entire vision and exactly what I felt the Lord showing me would happen.  Over the next several days, I sold my ADF colleagues on the plan and crafted the legal information letter and model policy that I was convinced would ultimately pass constitutional muster and save the tradition of uncensored public invocations.  

 

Saturday, March 22, 2014

Humility is the Key to a Godly Decision


I have had to make some tough decisions in 2013 and in the early part of 2014. Most of these decisions had to do with my personal life. Don't worry, all is well (or at least getting better and better), but tough decisions none the less.


There is nothing tougher than to make decisions that affect family, friends and employees. Obviously, the tough decisions that affect only acquaintances, is not really of concern. So what do we do when we have to make these tough decisions about employees?

God’s Word is always the ultimate arbiter of right and wrong, but on the issue of firing employees, the Bible offers a somewhat complicated teaching. One thing that we know for sure, though, is that in this process, as in all things, our first calling is to humility.



Move  slowly and introspectively, asking questions like:
  • Did this person know the rules and expectations?
  • Was improper training or some other management blunder the real culprit here?
  • Have I really measured this person’s performance accurately?
  • Is my decision motivated too much by profit concerns or by my personal dislike of this employee?
  • Have I considered the individual’s family situation?
  • And overall, am I honoring God as Boss and reflecting His face through my decision-making process?”

 

These are hard questions and they take time to answer.

Spending more time on our people is just part of the deal if we truly intend to take God seriously in the workplace. We will put more effort into decision-making and we will respect inconvenient – sometimes counter-cultural – guidelines that our peers blithely ignore. That’s humility before God.



Our distinctive attitude  as Christians must be a humble willingness to invest the time to balance discipline and forgiveness – to always seek God’s way. Sometimes God’s way will entail giving second or third chances, retraining the employee, offering lateral transfers for fit, and so on.

Other times it will entail delivering a pink slip, no matter how much you like the employee. But one thing it will always entail is walking with our employees in hard times, whether we’re walking them back to their work station or out the door. I wish I had all of these principles nailed down in my life and in my work. I don't, but I continue to move forward.


Keep up the great attitude. Do the right thing and never give up on doing good.


Take care,
Mark

Saturday, March 15, 2014

A Theology of Termination of Employees When Necessary

Let me reiterate, I am not firing anyone. I appreciate the staff who are with me. They work hard and generally have great attitudes. I am simply ruminating about the Christian's perspective of terminating employees for consistently poor behavior or other acts/omissions  that affect productivity. Christians are called to a higher standard, as both employers and employees.
What are the specifics of this “higher standard.” On one hand, grace is the central pillar of the New Covenant. On the other hand, both Testaments also indicate that it is entirely appropriate to excommunicate individuals from a group because of their behavior.


Staying with Proverbs for the moment, at least two passages stand out in this regard:



“Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife; quarrels and insults are ended” (Proverbs 22:10)


“Remove the dross from the silver, and out comes the material for the silversmith; remove the wicked from the king’s presence, and his throne will be established through righteousness” (Proverbs 25:4-5)

Proverbs 22:10 makes plain that removing problematic individuals should reduce conflict. Digging a little deeper, the word translated here as “mocker” carries the connotation of “scorner” and “arrogant talker.” This is a person whose inflated sense of himself creates disputes and generally disrupts the work environment. The verse, it seems, gives us the green light to oust such people from our workplaces.

 

Proverbs 25:4-5 builds on this thought with a promise that goes beyond reducing conflict. “Dross” is the residue left behind after an ore has been purified by fire. Likewise, for a work group to be as productive as possible, its dross – its “wicked” and, by implication, its “mockers” – must also be separated out. What should be the natural result of this “purification” process? The proverb teaches that the king’s “throne will be established by righteousness.” In a modern business context, purging of these employees from the group can pave the way for effective, God-honoring leadership.


There is no doubt a tension in the Biblical text between forgiveness and discipline – a tension that lies at the heart of the Christian manager’s dilemma about discharge. Since the Bible appears to support two different and competing paths, what is God’s will in this area?


Saturday, March 8, 2014

Biblical Insight on Employee Theft

2013 was a HARD year. My father's lady partner of over 30 years died. My stepfather died from Lou Gehrig's disease. Additionally, I had staff changes and months with limited income, which I later learned was,  in part, due to theft from an employee who was taking money and doing work outside of the firm.

Let me say, I have NO doubts about my present team. They are excellent employees and I am thrilled to be working with them all. However, I suppose with need and opportunity, any of us is subject to taking the wrong road. How should a Christian handle the trespasses of others?

I want to talk about the Biblical approach to employee theft.  I literally travailed over what to do about this situation because I trusted this person and had given much responsibility. Many of us felt betrayed. I struggled with justice and mercy, knowing that have been given mercy many times by family and friends. Fortunately, my moral failures never involved illegal activity, yet I still sought wise counsel.



Here I will share my thoughts on what a Christian employer should do under similar circumstances. If it helps, I am grateful. If not, I'm sorry.

 
Wise counsel:



1.       I don't think you would be wrong to let her go, but if you are feeling that you should show mercy, you might consider letting her know that her offense is  indeed grounds for termination, but you would like to show mercy and grace to her seeing that she is in a bad situation (which in no way negates her guilt or responsibility), but in order for her to stay she would be demoted to another position that would not have any access to client finances, etc., and work at a reduced salary.   That way she still has a job, still has some kind of income, but it is up to her to decide if she is truly remorseful hoping to move back up at some point in the future should she prove trustworthy, or she can look for another job.  You didn't fire her. :)  Just a thought.

Ricky

2.       However, forgetting about the money, this person knew she was misrepresenting the amount your client had paid.  Your reputation to your clients is your most valuable asset.  She damaged that reputation. I don’t think it would be in your best interest to have this person representing you in the future.

Larry

3.       Whatever action you take, please view it from how you think you would feel about you decision in 5 or 10 years from now and pursue no regrets.  This is a pretty serious offense.  If there is true repentance and restitution perhaps a probation period would be extremely merciful.  No matter your decision some serious boundaries need to be put in place so she can NEVER make do this again.  IF it cannot be put in place you will need to move forward in replacing her… right?  How you do it --- is for you to keep a clear conscience without regrets.This is not a pretty picture or an easy solution.  What is the LORD saying / leading you to do? 

Stephen

 
All seemed well  from these ideas, but what have larger entities done? Read on.

Prior to 1985, the hotel chain Days Inns of America was a Christian company. Its founder, Lon Day, Jr., sought to honor God by running family-oriented facilities, by not serving alcohol, by giving away more than 2.5 million Bibles to customers, and by offering a large share of the profits to charity. He also honored God with his stewardship of the operation, growing the company to more than 300 locations in fifteen years.

 

Day also cared immensely about his employees and even hired four full-time workplace chaplains to counsel workers who were in need. At the same time, workplace realities occasionally dictated that problematic employees be terminated, especially for taking kickbacks or for harassing female co-workers. According to Day, dismissed employees would typically plead their case with a fervent: “You can’t fire me. I thought this was a Christian company!”

Day’s response to them? Simple and final:

“God will always give you a second chance, but you have had your second chance with us!”


 

Some managers, like Day, seem to have little difficulty letting employees go. But for others, the prospects of terminating a subordinate can turn even a seasoned business professional into a nail-biting novice. And when that professional is also a Christian, there’s the added difficulty of reconciling the firing with God’s call to servanthood, forgiveness, and love.

 

Nowhere does scripture support the notion that it is sinful or even poor witness for a Christian boss to fire a subordinate. No where. God’s Word does not per se prohibit firing people. Quite the opposite, as we’ll see below, under certain circumstances, terminating employees is both sanctioned and encouraged in scripture.


It’s also the case, though, that we Christians have several responsibilities before we can invoke capital punishment in the workplace – responsibilities that include, but go well beyond, respecting legal mandates. As usual, God has set a higher standard of conduct for those who follow Him.

 

Employees Stealing from Employers

 

This also takes many forms.

 

John 12:6 - Judas kept the bag for Jesus and his disciples, but he stole from it. People in positions of responsibility in businesses often embezzle from the company. They may hide their crime by changing the books or other such manipulations.

 

Titus 2:9,10 - Servants should not pilfer or purloin (steal) from masters. Many employees take company supplies, equipment, and even the manufactured product. I have read that 60% of employees misuse company postage (using company stamps or postage meters to mail personal letters).

 

Some companies allow employees to take or use certain items. This is fine if we really have permission. If in doubt, ask. Do unto others as you would have them do to you. If you steal from your company, they must raise prices and the customers pay the extra. If you don't like paying for what others steal, then don't make others pay for what you steal.

 

Beware lest you harm your example by cheating your employer in these ways:

 1.           Stealing Time: 

Most people record the hours they work and are paid a certain amount per hour. While you are being paid, you should be a diligent worker. You were not hired to spend time texting, talking to your friends on the phone or at the workplace, or playing games. While you are at work you should be focused on the work you were hired to do.

If you finish your work, ask your employer if there are other things you can do. If there is no work you can spend time cleaning and organizing the workplace. This demonstrates your willingness to work and a desire to learn new things which makes you more valuable as an employee.

 2.           Embezzling: 

The most obvious way to do this is to take money for yourself if you have access to money. If the company gives you a credit card to make purchases on its behalf, they are trusting that you will not use the credit card to purchase personal items.


 3.           Unauthorized Loan: 

Someone might take money from the company or purchase personal items on a company credit card saying “but I’m going to pay it back.” Some fraud begins this way where the person is taking a small amount of money and promises to pay it back. They then take more money and eventually owe the company a lot of money with no way to pay it back. If you need money before you are paid, some companies will give you some of your pay ahead of time (called an advance). But this is money given with the approval of the employer and they take the payment out of your paycheck.


 4.           Pilfering: 

You can also steal money by taking office products or company property for your own. Although taking these small things, called “pilfering,” may not seem great, the scriptures explicitly forbid it.


 5.           Lying About Expenses: 

Sometimes people “pad their expenses” by turning in receipts for personal items that are not supposed to be paid for or will report more than what was spent for expenses without a receipt. This is a basic trust issue. Is your soul so valuable that you’d sell it for an extra $5 or $10? Yet some will lie and cheat for such small amounts.


Next week, look for the personal post about the "theology of termination."


Take care.